Paul?

I guess I "forgot" to mention Paul. He's the guy I guess I've been dating.

We've gone out a few times and I think I like him but I am not sure. At least I thought I liked him after our first date. He is very very nice, he's a Christian (and a Calvinist at that) and he's a republican. He has a good job, his own home and has a good sense of humor too. He's 7 years older than me in case you are wondering. The thing is I'm not sure where I stand with him. He works alot and it's not that he really works too much it's that he travels 90% of the time and as a result I feel like an after thought.

I probably should not take it so personally but sometimes I don't hear from him for a week or so and then find out he was in Dallas or Charleston or some other warm place but when he has free time he tells me that as soon as his schedule slows down he'd like to get together again. I guess that means he is still interested in me, right?

He also has not kissed me yet and I am not used to that at all. That's usually how I tell if a guy is interested. I don't know if that is a good or bad thing that I haven't kissed him or that I've always kissed guys I've dated. I think that is normal, right?

Maybe it's the age difference? Maybe it's different communication styles? Maybe it's different "love languages"? I don't know.

Just some thoughts....